So after my colossally disastrous breakup (after an 8 year relationship) and crazy ex roommate, I’ve decided to dip my toes in the dating pool. The thing is... I have no idea what I’m doing. I’m 29, I’ve met all of my boyfriends online (via shared interests back when online dating was weird) except for one in high school.

I have no idea how to act on a date, or how much touching is expected, or what people even do on dates. Do people really get a feel for someone after one date? I haven’t even decided if I like the guy after one date, and idk... I just feel so unsure of myself.

I’m on the spectrum, but most dating help for ND folks is basically telling guys “do not be a creepy stalker”. Completely useless for me.

Help a girl out?